Numero Uno

I always thought I'd end up with a hot hubby, a few kids, a lovely home complete with white picket fence and a couple of dogs..... Life doesn't always take the route that you expect it to. I currently find myself single after a long-term relationship ended, and not sure what to do with my life. I'm free to do whatever I want. I don't have any debt, I have a good, well-paid job, loads of wonderful friends, a fantastic family, I travel, I shop, I do what most girls do when they live in a big city...

So the other day I came across a blog, it detailed the life of a sugarbaby, and I read it with intense interest. I realised I've actually been a sugarbaby in the past without even realising it! I had a wealthy older boyfriend in my early twenties, he bought me lovely things, and I lived with him rent-free as he owned his house. It was bliss for 2 years, but it didn't work out because he's very family-oriented and his family wanted him to settle down with someone of his own ethnicity. Boo to me...

I've since dated a pro-athlete, an actor, a small handful of insanely good looking guys, had a few toy-boys, and been with my last lad for 7 years but it didn't work out, we are so similar, yet so different, and I deserve the best so we split at my suggestion and we've ended up as friends. I miss him terribly, but I just know that he's not right for me, and I'm not right for him, sadly. I've spent 6 months alone, dealing with the loss and transition and trying to leave behind as much baggage as possible...

And now begins my search for a Sugar Daddy. I want to find someone with whom I connect with, am fascinated by, have utmost respect for, and can't wait to spend time with. I'm sure that's probably too much to ask for, but a girl can have high hopes can't she? At the very least, this should be one hell of an adventure...

I will apologise ahead of time if my updates are somewhat sporadic, I am a busy lass and finding time to be able to sit down and update a blog is probably going to be a little difficult - between socialising, shopping, work and play, life is a busy thing to be involved with. Fingers are crossed though, that I can find plenty of time to share my adventures... :)