I'm back!

And I have a lovely sugar daddy who treats me well and is a lot of fun to hang out with :)

Update on events over the past year and a bit will follow, but in a nutshell I've met LOADS of pots, most of whom have been a waste of time. A few have been genuine. One walked out after 3 minutes (rude, obnoxious Frenchie)....

I'm also now a Domina with slaves and am having so much fun with that :) There will be many adventures to share.....

Hope you are all well out there in blogland! I see a lot of the regular sb bloggers have drifted away, which is sad. I guess that's life though isn't it.

Honey xx

Yo!

Hi sugars

As you've probably noticed, I've had a little holiday from blogging... - truth be told, I have steered clear of blogging anything about pots and sd's in case I'm jinxing myself, because that is what seems to have been happening. I'd like to think men really aren't that flaky..... not sure whether I was jinxing myself or not, but I had 3 sd's - and all have flaked on me (fricken men!!)

I certainly have a few stories to share, that's for certain :) and I promise I will get my sugarblog mojo back asap... but to share a little bit of sweet goss with you - I have one semi-daddy, a lovely guy who I see once a week-ish, who is totally lovely... and have met with another who I quite like, he can certainly give me what I want (or so he claims - because obviously I can give him what HE wants, LOL!!) but he doesn't know exactly what he wants... ugh!

These sugar dating sites are being bastardised by people looking for real relationships.... is anyone else finding this too?

Hope you're all having fun in sugar land... I really need to catch up on everyone's blogs - and discover all the new ones which no doubt have emerged since I've been 'away'....

Much love

xx

Sugarfree?

Hi Babies!

Well it seems that a few weeks away has rendered me somewhat sugar-free - by that I mean Dean has made like Houdini and done the greatest disappearing act knownto man... I texted him just to say I was back in town when I landed at the airport, didn't hear back from him and I certainly wasn't going to chase him. A week later it was his birthday so I texted him for that, no response - not even a thank you. A week after that I went back onto the site and sent him a message to let him know that "it's ok if he doesn't want to see me any more.... but the right thing to do is let a girl know", I thanked him for the gifts during our time and wished him luck in the future - he deleted it without even reading it.... WHAT A COCK! So apparently he's taken the cowards way out and is ignoring me... funny thing is, he's been back on the site every single day this month, and a lot of last month too - as if I wasn't going to notice. Oh well, I didn't get attached so I don't really care, I just think he showed a complete lack of integrity in not communicating to me.

Mark - well I had an interesting conversation with a girlfriend back home in October, and I actually said to her that I suspected Mark may bat for the other team.... after 4 dinners out, he'd not laid a finger on me, and when I mentioned I felt a little guilty him paying for dinner plus my cab home and we hadn't yet discussed our 'arrangement' he told me he wanted to take things slowly.... Ummmmm... what???? So anyway, I got my analytical thinking cap on and came to this conclusion: He only wanted to go for dinner in HIS area, we met a few people that HE knew, went to HIS favourite restaurants, and based on some of his characteristics, I think he wanted the local people around his area to see him with me and to think he was seeing a girl so as not to arouse any suspicions. Seems strange in this day and age? Well he's very old-fashioned, so perhaps he hasn't quite come to terms with his 'homosexuality' yet.... I wonder though....

Finally, Neal - he cancelled on me once (granted, I've only actually met the guy twice!!) and then he disappeared for a week.... I messaged him to make sure he's ok, apparently he's had swine flu and has been laid up. Ok so this one hasn't exactly completely disappeared (yet) so we'll see what comes of it.

Regardless, I'm back on the sites and communicating with a few pots. I have one date lined up, and another guy I'm working on, a third possibly for next weekend but we'll see, and a fourth potential that lives in the US so that one is coming on slowly... I also am working on a slave (yes!!) who wants to meet me so I can see if he's worthy of my attention (has anyone had a money slave before?) and I met a nice young man who I've seen a couple of times and might keep on the sideline as a bit of candy distraction.

The highlight of my week last week has to be Baby Bow - we met up for a night of champagne and sugar daddy watching, we went to an expensive hotel and sat in the bar, then proceeded to ignore everyone else and talk talk talk! Bow is a beautiful, buxom, bubbly blonde lady, she's a lot of fun, and I can see we're going to have a great time whenever we get the chance to meet up. She even showed me how it's done - after we left the hotel we were waiting at the lights ready to cross the road, there was a potential waiting there as well talking on his mobile phone. When we walked up he looked at me approvingly, but once he spotted Bow he only had eyes for her. We ended up with an invite to go up to his room in a nearby 5-star hotel (which we both politely declined - but Bow got his number anyway, go girlfriend!!) so I've seen her in action now, and I must say - she's very impressive :)

In other news, my trip was amazing, family are well, I got to hang out with my 3 best girlfriends (separately) and my best gayfriend (I miss him so much!). I also almost had a sugar date while I was there, but he was very late and to be honest, I don't wait around for men (plus I had a flight to catch) so I left before he got there (he was 45 minutes late and hadn't called or texted - that's just plain rude in my book). My girlfriend that I stayed with the longest has got to be the ultimate sugar baby, without actually being a sugar baby.... she's extremely smart, absolutely stunning, and the guy she's been seeing for 3 years, he's 24 years older than her, now pays her rent, takes her on holidays, takes her shopping, buys her Tiffany's, he took us out twice together and paid on his black amex.... but he's a bit of a head-fuck if you ask me, I think alcohol has a lot to do with it. That and the fact that most extremely wealthy men are so used to getting what they want and having everything their own way that they begin to dismiss what their partner wants and needs.... that's just my observation, anyway.

It's great to see all the new babies who have been blogging in the last couple of months - welcome, and keep up the great work!

So darlings, that's my update. I'll be back probably at the weekend (if not sooner) to update you more on developments, but until then - be safe, be happy, and be beautiful....

HB xx

Ooops!

Hi darlings!

Apols for the lack of updates, work and life got in the way a little bit.... Have quite a bit of news so I hope to jump on over the weekend and post an update. Until then, stay sweet xx

Birthday week update

Hi babies! (And daddy's if there are any reading this)

This couple of weeks has been super-busy, it's been my birthday week so had lots of celebratory get-togethers with my many friends and a few "Daddy's". I've had a fab time, and now I'm officially in my late thirties, ugh! There's no turning back the clock, so I fully intend to make the most of it. I still get told I don't look any more than 30 and more often people think I'm around 27-29 so I guess that's pretty cool, I'm lucky. I assume its good genes or something to that effect, LOL!

I also did something out of curiosity a few weeks ago that increased my "Daddy" potentials more than tenfold. I've had so many messages that I can't keep up and haven't even read them all. Any blogging Babies out there who want to know the 'key', just mail me and I'll reply as soon as I am able to. Its not really much of a surprise that what I've done has caused so much reaction... Men are what they are, heh heh!

So as far as birthday gifts go, I got some flowers from one of my sd's, and a pendant from another. Nothing from the third yet but I had only met him once. They are all equally difficult to get to see, thank goodness I have a small harem of sd's or I'd only get out and about once or twice a fortnight, I'd much rather be out nearly every evening though :)

Aran has resurfaced again... Twice, actually, since I blogged about him. He wants to be my pet. Well I guess he's only human, LOL! I will consider what he wants if and when he actually lays it all out in an email, as I am unsure he's truly serious. Watch this space...

J2 cancelled on me twice more, I told him to forget it (I am not a doormat!) So last I had heard from him was about 10 days ago... Until yesterday. He texted me, I haven't responded, and since I'm out of the country now for a while my prepaid sim won't work so that solves that then. Hah!

I've been messaging another gentleman for a little while who seems very serious about an arrangement, and if my stable of daddy's are doing to continue to play hard to get then I may just add another to my group. Again, watch this space - I've not met him yet and I've not made any firm decisions on anything yet.

Well lovelies, I hope that makes up for the lack of blog entries... I'll be back again soon xx

NOTE: I wrote this a bit over a week ago but have been travelling and not had access to internet, apologies for the delay...

I hate to say it, but told ya so!

I'm at home tonight, J2 had to bail on our date again... which I actually expected to happen. I see a pattern forming. He was lovely about it, promising a 'rematch' soon, but we all know what they are like don't we ladies... Once he meets me it will probably be a done deal, I can be super-charming when I set my sights on someone. He sounds nice, he's closer to my age than most, he is (or claims to be) single, and is not limited to a strict SD/SB arrangement but understands that his business life, being as erratic as it is, is not condusive to a 'normal' relationship and so will ensure his 'baby' is looked after to compensate for his absences (or will pay for her to accompany him).

At any rate I've had a nice evening, I hung out with my flatmates whom I rarely see because I'm out so much - they call me the phantom flatmate heh heh - and we watched a movie which, incidentally, involved a younger guy entering into an 'arrangement' with an older woman (Stockard Channing) and then falling in love with her daughter whom he didn't know was her daughter... it was a decent movie actually - can't remember the name of it though doh!

I'm seeing Nick again before the end of the week, and also Mark if he gets better soon he's been rather ill the poor petal. Nick is super-keen, very available, and I would say he wants to move on with something very quickly. As we haven't discussed specifics yet I don't know what frequency or arrangements he's comfortable with, I guess we'll work that out soon, I hope it's not too often though or I'll have to learn how to juggle!

Dean - a bit more on my SD. You wouldn't know he had money, he doesn't dress up, has an old cheap watch, doesn't have a car, lives in a small and very understated place but in a posh part of town, and doesn't spend a lot of money on creature comforts, but he's nice, considerate and respectful, I like that. I think if we continue, then this arrangement will be a bit more understated, a lot less flashy than Nick's - who says he likes to go out a lot and splash the cash around (yes please, thank you very much!) so hopefully no chance of getting caught . I'm still not convinced I'll do the multi-daddy thing yet, I guess I'm still feeling it out, but I like Dean, and I like Nigel, and I like Mark... and I'll probably like J2.... what's a girl to do?

The return....

I honestly didn't expect it, but J2 has resurfaced and so we're meeting up tomorrow night. I promise that if it actually goes ahead this time I will update in detail, haha!

Tonight I was supposed to spend with Dean but he's not feeling well so has postponed. I don't mind at all - in fact I've been so busy lately that I've neglected myself a bit so tonight I'm catching up on hair, nails and de-fuzzing various bits of my anatomy. Oh and cleaning the bathroom, proving that I am a domestic goddess after all LOL!

I went shopping for supplies with some of the cash I got from Dean, and I'm all stocked up now. to be honest, I don't really need the money, I'm not in the Sugar Game for purely cash purposes, I'm in it for the experience. I have always had my own money, always - and I mean ALWAYS - paid my own way, but now I think it's my turn to let someone spoil me for a change. Each time someone else pulls out a credit card to pay for dinner or drinks I feel guilty... (note to self: really must get over that asap!) I know, I know, I'm stupid - I guess it's just I've always been so independent. Oh I've had stints of broke-ness, don't worry about that! I lived on the side of the road in a vehicle for a few months when I was at my lowest. But that time passed, I was able to pick myself up, dust myself off, and hey presto here I am!

Ladies, thank you for your wonderful comments, it's great to meet you all :) Here's to a happy, healthy, and very sugary future for us all :)

Honey xx

Up to date

Well I have a SD, it's official. It's Dean, and so far he's been super-lovely. More on him later....

This week I've had such a busy week. I didn't end up meeting J2, he texted saying he was stuck in his city and couldn't get in for our date, but we should reschedule. I told him when I was free and we 'tentatively' re-arranged. Something didn't quite feel right, so when I got home I texted him to ask that, since he was stuck where he was with (apparently) no plans for the evening, would he like to have a chat on the phone with me. He said yes but a bit later... well it never happened. I texted him as I was going to bed and he only replied with 'Nite xx' - no apology for not calling, nothing. I haven't texted or emailed him since, and haven't heard from him at all. Men are so predictable!

So I had a few nights out planned for social occasions and a work function, which would keep me busy, then I messaged Dean to see if he was free the night J2 and I had 'tentatively' rearranged for - there was no way in hell I was going to stay home that night, so yes I double-booked myself but... J2 didn't contact me to confirm, so I went to see Dean instead.

We had a lovely evening, the food and wine was great and he's a nice guy - a little bit nerdy but then, I always did love my nerds, LOL! So we've negotiated an 'allowance' and I now have a new SD. I'll see him again this week, and he's gifted me with some cashola. It's my birthday in the next few weeks so it will be interesting to see what he gets for me, hope it's something nice :)

And so here begins the next chapter in my life.... I have a few decisions to make - do I stick with one SD who I won't see very often as he's very busy, or do I perhaps find another to help fill in the time? What do y'all think?

Offers...

Just a mega-quick update... this week has been very productive, I have not one but two offers on the table. Am just on my way out the door to meet with one of my potentials to negotiate further. Will update more in-depth tomorrow :)

HB x

I have my first follower :)

Wow I have my first follower - hi Sweetie!! I'm so chuffed, thank you :-))

J1 meeting

Wow well he obviously was very impressed by what he saw, he asked me to get involved with him in the first 10 mins of our date! Haven't discussed specifics but he's married and is looking for a proper SB... has had a couple in the past and spoke of them fondly which, as I've said before, to me that's a good sign. So I now have one more newbie to date and then some big decisions to make...

HB x

Dean

Just back from a nice date with SD Dean, he is decent looking, and a complete gentleman. He was a bit uncomfortable at the start but I made sure to initiate conversation if there was the potential for any uncomfortable silences, and did my best to let him know subtly that tonight he had my complete and undiveded attention. I think I achieved my goals :)

He told me he's met 8 or 9 other SB's and most of them are nothing like their profiles, state they are many years younger than they actually are, and barely resemble their photos as they've been retouched or are of someone else completely. He told me he was very pleased that I look the same as in my pics, and so I should do though as my photos are natural, untouched and current.

To be honest, I'm relatively confident that I'll hear from him about pursuing an arrangement but I'm not going to count my chickens just yet :) Plus I'm still keeping my options open... I have another two dates lined up for monday and tuesday, let's call them J1 and J2. I am very keen to meet J1 and J2 and see if there is any chemistry, especially J2, although knowing my luck it will be a disaster, but I really, truly hope not... Please, karma Gods, be kind to me?

HoneyBaby xx

Nick

I joined SD.com and holy shit I got so many messages straight up - 20 in 12 hours, not including those stupid Hotlist ones.... I'm trying to do the right thing and respond to each one but it takes up so much time.

So I've met one of the guys off SD I'll call him Nick, he was lovely - considerably wealthy, only wants to see me about once a week and occasional weekends. We haven't discussed any financial arrangements yet, we were enjoying our date too much. He's very keen.... and has good potential too. We've arranged to meet again for a quick lunch or coffee through the week next week so will update more once that's happened. Got a date tomorrow with a guy I'll call Dean - tell you all about it afterwards :)

HB x

Met Aran

I met Aran near his place and we went to a pub for a drink. We talked for a couple of hours, he's quite an interesting character, and we've arranged to meet again in a week's time. He's just started on the sites same as me so I guess he's keeping his options open, which is understandable. Not a lot more to tell about him, he's a bit odd, but not in a bad way, just maybe uncomfortable around women or something.

Met Mark

Well I've just come back from meeting Mark, it went VERY well and he wants to see me again but he's off on a long trip in a few days so we won't be able to hook up again for a while.

He met me outside a train station close to my work - he came to me rather than me going to him which I thought was extremely nice of him. He's about 25 years older than me and is a total gentleman, we chatted over couple of glasses of champagne and we both thoroughly enjoyed the
conversation, never was it uncomfortable and I found him so interesting and utterly charming. My goodness I'm almost swooning :)

We ended up going for a lovely meal at a nearby restaurant and ended the evening with him walking me back to the station and me making sure he got in a cab to go home. He's had a small number of SB arrangements in the past which I asked him for some details on. I noticed he spoke fondly of them, which is a good sign in my opinion. Unfortunately now he's away for a while, and he hopes I don't find another SD before he gets back, I take that as a very good indication that he wants to see a bit more of me...

I think I've just had what almost feels like a real 'date', wow it feels nice! I like it.

Met Jonathan

Well I met Jonathan and it was as I expected, he's a nice guy, not bad looking, very driven, and huge sex drive - so much so that I simply wouldn't be able to keep up with him. He was a very interesting character though, just not right for me... Next!!

HB x

Mark

I received a few messages from a gent named Mark. His profile comes across as a teensy bit sleazy but you can never tell if its all bravado or if its really how he'll be in the flesh, so I have agreed to meet him for a drink. He's looking for a SB so I'll see if there's any chemistry or not. Benefit of the doubt, and all that...

HB x

Jonathan

I sent an email to a guy I'll call Jonathan, he replied so we exchanged a few messages then he wanted to talk so I called him. He sounds great, only thing is he really likes a lot of sex, and by that I mean a LOT - at least 3x a day every day... In all honesty I don't think I would be able to keep up with him, which concerns me, but everything else about him is great. I've agreed to meet him for a drink and maybe dinner if we like each other, the sex thing still bothers me though. Based on that I don't think this one is going to go anywhere, but as I have said before you never know until you try... So I'll give him a try!

Aran

Well I got my first response message - I received a message back from a guy named Aran, a wealthy middle eastern gent that I contacted. He sounds nice, and seems generous to a fault, we just finished a one-and-a-half hour telephone conversation so I'm going to meet him for a drink to find out more about him. He's only the first one so I won't count my chickens just yet! Hope it goes well. Will update once the meeting is over :)

HB x

Going fishing

After registering with Seeking Arrangement I took a look around at who might be available as a potential Sugar Daddy, and to be honest I wasn't too impressed, there really weren't many with photos, much less decent photos, (although I do realise the more high profile gents prefer not to put up their mug shots, preferring anonymity). I'm not looking for the highest quality standard, best looking, wealthiest man (or men) by any means, I am trying to read between the lines and see who has a real personality, but I do think a good quality photo says a lot about the profile owner... having said that, I guess the ones with photos would receive massive amounts of correspondence. After I put my photos up I got a couple of small 'bites' but nothing major... I've sent a few messages out now so will see if anyone responds... the age thing will probably be against me.

Marketing strategy

Well I'm signed up to a few sites now, profiles and photos all approved... there are loads of seemingly great guys in New York and L.A. but to be honest it's slim pickings for SD's in London, which is disappointing. Given that I'm not 'young' sugar any more, even though I look substantially younger than I am, I think I'm going to have to go on the prowl and make the first contact - just a feeling I have. I viewed a lot of profiles, and have added loads into my favourites, so we'll see if I get any responses 'cause so far I've not had a single nibble. My pics are good, I think it's down to age - men are so predictable with these things.

Oh well... wish me luck!

HoneyBaby x

Numero Uno

I always thought I'd end up with a hot hubby, a few kids, a lovely home complete with white picket fence and a couple of dogs..... Life doesn't always take the route that you expect it to. I currently find myself single after a long-term relationship ended, and not sure what to do with my life. I'm free to do whatever I want. I don't have any debt, I have a good, well-paid job, loads of wonderful friends, a fantastic family, I travel, I shop, I do what most girls do when they live in a big city...

So the other day I came across a blog, it detailed the life of a sugarbaby, and I read it with intense interest. I realised I've actually been a sugarbaby in the past without even realising it! I had a wealthy older boyfriend in my early twenties, he bought me lovely things, and I lived with him rent-free as he owned his house. It was bliss for 2 years, but it didn't work out because he's very family-oriented and his family wanted him to settle down with someone of his own ethnicity. Boo to me...

I've since dated a pro-athlete, an actor, a small handful of insanely good looking guys, had a few toy-boys, and been with my last lad for 7 years but it didn't work out, we are so similar, yet so different, and I deserve the best so we split at my suggestion and we've ended up as friends. I miss him terribly, but I just know that he's not right for me, and I'm not right for him, sadly. I've spent 6 months alone, dealing with the loss and transition and trying to leave behind as much baggage as possible...

And now begins my search for a Sugar Daddy. I want to find someone with whom I connect with, am fascinated by, have utmost respect for, and can't wait to spend time with. I'm sure that's probably too much to ask for, but a girl can have high hopes can't she? At the very least, this should be one hell of an adventure...

I will apologise ahead of time if my updates are somewhat sporadic, I am a busy lass and finding time to be able to sit down and update a blog is probably going to be a little difficult - between socialising, shopping, work and play, life is a busy thing to be involved with. Fingers are crossed though, that I can find plenty of time to share my adventures... :)